Recent Blog Posts
Mistakes to Avoid During Divorce
Divorce is more than a legal procedure. It is an emotional, financial, and logistical transition that can have long-lasting consequences if handled poorly. In New Jersey, divorce outcomes are shaped not only by the law but also by the decisions spouses make throughout the process. Missteps made early or under emotional strain can negatively… Read More »
How to Protect High-Value Assets During Divorce
Divorce is rarely simple, but when substantial assets are involved, the process can become significantly more complex. Business interests, real estate portfolios, retirement accounts, investments, and other high-value property often require careful analysis and strategic planning to ensure they are fairly identified, valued, and divided. In New Jersey, which follows an equitable distribution framework,… Read More »
Special Rules That Apply in a Military Divorce
Divorce is rarely simple, but when one or both spouses serve in the military, the process involves additional legal rules that do not apply in civilian cases. Federal statutes intersect with New Jersey family law in ways that can affect jurisdiction, timing, property division, support, custody, and benefits. Understanding these special rules is essential… Read More »
What Happens if You Don’t Pay Child Support
Child support is a legal obligation, not a suggestion. In New Jersey, court-ordered child support is strictly enforced, and failing to pay can lead to serious legal and financial consequences. Many parents fall behind due to job loss, illness, or other life changes, but ignoring a child support order or assuming the issue will… Read More »
Parenting Plans
When parents separate or divorce, one of the most important legal documents they will create is the parenting plan. In New Jersey, a parenting plan serves as a roadmap for how parents will share responsibilities and make decisions for their children after the relationship ends. A well-drafted parenting plan reduces conflict, provides stability for… Read More »
How Retirement Accounts Are Divided in a New Jersey Divorce
Retirement accounts are often some of the most valuable assets a couple owns by the time they divorce, second only to real estate and perhaps business interests. In New Jersey, courts view retirement savings and pension benefits as part of the marital estate, potentially subject to equitable distribution between spouses. If you have IRAs,… Read More »
Can Alimony Be Modified or Terminated?
Alimony is often one of the most significant and most misunderstood parts of a New Jersey divorce. Unlike child support, which follows strict formula-driven guidelines, alimony is more flexible and individualized. This flexibility continues even after a divorce is finalized. Under New Jersey law, alimony may be modified or even terminated when certain life… Read More »
What to Expect in Your Initial Consultation With Your Divorce Lawyer
Deciding to pursue a divorce is a major life step, and meeting with a family law attorney for the first time can feel anxious, intimidating, or even overwhelming. At the Law Offices of John B. D’Alessandro, we help clients in Union, Essex, and Middlesex counties understand the process, their rights, and the options available… Read More »
What Should Be Included in a Prenuptial Agreement?
A prenuptial agreement (or “prenup”) is a practical tool for couples preparing for marriage. Far from being a sign of mistrust, a well-drafted prenup promotes transparency, financial planning, and peace of mind. It allows couples to define how property, income, and debts will be handled during the marriage and in the event of divorce… Read More »
Establishing Paternity in New Jersey: What You Need to Know
When a child is born to unmarried parents in New Jersey or when there’s uncertainty about legal fatherhood, establishing paternity is a critical first step. Legal paternity opens doors to both rights and responsibilities for the father and benefits to the child, concerning everything from custody and visitation to child support, health insurance access,… Read More »
